http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/ en Copyright 2008 Thu, 14 Aug 2008 15:12:20 -0500 http://www.sixapart.com/movabletype/ http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification **By Jeanne Muchnick** At the heart of every good vacation is knowing you're getting what you've paid for. Somehow sipping a pina colada poolside while your kids frolic in the pool feels that much more relaxing -- and sweeter -- knowing you've gotten a deal. For Leah Ingram of New Hope, PA, a recent trip to Disney World was made more enjoyable knowing she and her family were doing everything they wanted -- within budget. How'd she do it? By shopping around for bargains, flying into Tampa, rather than Orlando and staying off Disney property. All told, she spent $1,160 for a four-day trip for her family of four. "We were willing to be flexible, and I think that helped," she says. For example, she used Priceline.com to find a hotel room. Her original bid was $50 a night in the Lake Buena Vista area (where Disney is located). When that didn't work, she raised it to $75 and widened her net, this time including Orlando proper. She found a deal at the Sheraton World on International Drive, where it turned out Priceline and Discover were doing a promotion and would knock the nightly rate to $50 if you applied online for a credit card. Whether you want to admit it or not, money is a big part of your vacation experience. Feeling like you're being nickled and dimed to death puts a dent in your wallet -- and in your fun. There's nothing worse than waking up in an expensive resort room feeling like you'd rather be home -- a scenario that happened to me and my family on a recent trip to Florida's East Coast. Simple planning and forethought are all that's needed for a good experience. My Florida mistake was that I hadn't done my homework. Ingram did. And you can too. **Budget Know How** The first rule of thumb, say travel industry insiders, is coming up with a detailed budget and sticking to it. You can even go so far as to create a vacation account (if putting money aside won't cost extra at your bank). If you have your paycheck direct-deposited, have a certain amount put into a separate account. Another money-saving option: get a credit card that offers frequent flyer miles and use it everywhere, so you can cash in come trip-time. Or look for promotions, as Ingram did with Discover and Priceline. Advance planing also helps, as Ilene Gordon of Potomac, MD can attest to. She and her family sit down and talk about where they'd like to go, then book within reason -- a year in advance. "Booking ahead is important to getting a fair rate," confirms Cathy Palaez of New Jersey-based Liberty Travel. "Family travel is centered around school holidays, making space at a premium. The farther out you book, the better your chances that you will get what you want. It's a question of supply and demand. When demand is high, prices are high." She suggests planning trips ten months to a year in advance, so you "get what you want and don't feel like you have to settle for what you can get." Gordon also involves her sons, 9 and ll, in their vacation discussions. Before a trip, she and her husband give the boys a certain amount of money (or have them use their allowance) so there's a limit to souvenir spending. Kathy McNally, Vice President for National Financial Literacy with Silver Spring, MD-based National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC), a non-profit organization for consumer credit counseling, says involving kids at a young age, say five plus, makes for a good lesson in money matters. "Children begin to understand the meaning of budgeting when they have to empty out their piggy banks or use their own money for souvenirs." Last, but not least: save change: it can add up. Kelly Newcomb of Summit, NJ, says her family keeps a gallon jug in their kitchen and periodically fills in with coins and the occasional dollar bills. When they emptied it last year, they had a whopping $500 -- enough for a trip to Grand Cayman. While your jar may not have that much, just emptying it at vacation time can mean extra spending money for your kids -- or you. **Do Your Homework** Once you've figured out how much your budget is, you can narrow down your vacation options. Do you want to beach-it? Visit a city? Go back to a favorite theme park? Opt for skiing? Tour a national park? Often, just being a native in your own city is a wonderful inexpensive vacation option, as is staying with friends (within reason). Think about staying one or two nights with a friend -- as Ingram and her brood did in Tampa -- then opt for a hotel room for the next few evenings. Or think about tacking on vacation days to a business meeting Mom or Dad may have to attend, as at least one airfare is already covered. As you're doing your research, think creatively: may want to stay in all-inclusive resort, like Beaches or a family-run resort like The Tyler Place in Highgate Springs, Vermont (my family's favorite), so you know up front how much you're spending and don't have to worry about hidden extras. I personally like budgeting $3,000 for our week (food, taxes, activities, cabin costs) at The Tyler Place and knowing we won't go over that. Family-friendly cruises such as Carnival, Royal Caribbean and Disney are other viable options as you pay for just about everything beforehand. Packages are another buzz-word when it comes to looking for bargains, but beware of hidden amenities you don't need. You don't want to stay at a resort with amenities you're paying for, but will never use. Be on the lookout for family-friendly plans offered by many hotels and resorts, such as Hyatt, Loew's, Holiday Inn and Radisson properties. Some will offer substantial discounts (25 to 50%) off a second (adjoining) room, along with other amenities such as babyproofing, cookies and milk at turndown, coloring kits, as well as an array of children's activities. Holiday Inn Buena Vista Family Suites, near Disney World, is one example of a hotel that is big on discounts. Every room is a themed-suite, the most desirable for families being the Kidsuites, complete with bunkbeds, Nintendo, a kid's desk, TV and games. Be money savvy when choosing accommodations. Staying at hotel or motel that's two blocks away from beach instead of right on beach will save you some money as will considering a condo or house rental. Any room with a kitchen can help you cut back on restaurant expenses by making some meals yourself instead of eating out three times a day. Los Angeles mom Laura Travis says it's easier to pour a couple bowls of cereal in a kitchenette, rather than getting three sleepy boys out of pajamas and into a restaurant -- where cereal is often over-priced anyway. No matter what, always ask for discounts, and don't forget to mention to a reservationist if you're a member of AAA or another organization that offers occasional savings. If you want to stay somewhere really inexpensive, say $15 to $25 a night, consider a hostel -- they're no longer catering solely to the backpacking crowd and many are family-friendly; 202-783-6161 for Hostelling International or www.hiayh.org. Camping is another inexpensive option. Thinking creatively also works when considering transportation. Look into taking a train ride (a trip in itself!) Consider the age -- and fatigue factor -- of kids, however. Some parents find it's worth paying for a nonstop flight simply for less aggravation. Ask questions before you book so you're not surprised by hidden costs. I didn't know that the Florida resort we stayed in last summer charged extra for the kid's program. At $20 a day and two kids, that added up -- something I would have known if I had done my homework better. Be flexible, too, with your travel plans. "Everyone wants to stay over Saturday night," says Palaez, "but if you can go Tuesday to Tuesday or Monday to Thursday, that helps, as these are often less-traveled days." If you can, consider travelling off-season. Think about going hiking or camping at a destination that's primarily a ski resort. Or go to the Caribbean in the summer. You'll generally find fewer crowds and less expensive airfares. If your kids are not yet in school full-time, you can avoid peak travel simply by traveling when other people's kids are in school. Most important: shop around. Here's where the Web comes in. Doing research online has become one of the most popular ways to surf the internet, according to Linda Daly at Yahoo Travel. Many sites make it easy by giving you spending limits and offering departing and arriving cities so you can figure out airfare. Some easy to navigate sites include yahoo, libertytravel, 1travel.com, and travelocity. It's also worth checking out the travel guidebook sites such as frommers.com (the Arthur Frommer site), and Fodors. Travel agents, travel guidebooks and your local Sunday newspaper are another way to find bargains. **Once There** When possible, pay cash or travelers checks. Hotel, car, and airlines are often more convenient on a credit card. If you plan to use credit, keep a running list of purchases, says McNally, as they can add up fast. Decide before you leave how much of your budgeted funds will be credit purchases and have a plan to pay off the balance within three months of your return. Buy miscellaneous items, i.e. batteries, film, and even "kiddie staples," like Goldfish, fruit roll-ups, peanut butter, bread and Cheerios beforehand as these items are guaranteed to be more expensive at your vacation destination. Stock up, too, on medicines, such as Tylenol, Calamine lotion, Band-aids-aids, sunscreen, etc. *Jeanne Muchnick is a multi-tasking mama who's been writing about her two girls ever since they were born. She's the former Editor of Baby Magazine turned InTown Senior Editor whose parenting stories have also appeared in a variety of national consumer magazines including Woman's Day, Healthy Kids, Parents, Parenting, Pregnancy, FamilyFun and more. She lives in Larchmont, NY with her two girls: Corey, 14 and Sydney, 11, her husband, Mark and her flat coated retriever, Chip.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/budgeting_for_a_family_vacation.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/budgeting_for_a_family_vacation.php Plan Ahead budget family planning vacation Thu, 14 Aug 2008 15:12:20 -0500 http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/the_benefits_of_all_inclusive.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/the_benefits_of_all_inclusive.php Plan Ahead all-inclusive family vacation Where to Stay Thu, 14 Aug 2008 15:06:55 -0500 **By Jeanne Muchnick** The water is a natural playground for young children, making beach vacations a popular choice for families. However, too much sun can ruin a trip if you're not careful. The following tips are courtesy of Dr. Beth Lange of the Coppertone Solar Research Center, and moms Lilia Fallgatter and Jennifer Thomas, who recently returned from beach vacations. **Research Before You Book**. How family-friendly a place is can depend on the time of year you're visiting. You don't want to go somewhere and later find out its Spring Break for colleges meaning there will be tons of teenagers (and noise). You should also make sure there are other (age appropriate) kid-friendly activities nearby to give you alternatives to the beach. Kid's programs, of course, are key to keeping your little one entertained (and giving you time for yourself). Find out about the counselor to child ratio and how old children must be to join. Ideally, you want more than just a playgroup. At Beaches resorts throughout the Caribbean the kids programs are interactive in teaching your children about the sea life, the local traditions and more. **Pack Equipment**. Or ask to make sure the resort you're going to has what you need (i.e. crib, high chairs, playpens, diapers). Ideally you'll want a room with a small kitchen to give you a refrigerator and immediate food access for snacks and other items. For young babies/toddlers, think about taking up a pop up tent to provide some shade and relief throughout the day if you plan to be at the beach all day. Or ask the resort what type of shady canopies they provide. **Take plenty of sun protection and remember to apply, apply, apply.** Sunscreen is a must have to protect delicate skin from the harsh rays and painful burns. Because the sun may cause damage immediately, don't forget to apply sunscreen to yourself and your kids before heading outside, even if you will be under trees! Remember to reapply every 80 minutes - even if the sunscreen is waterproof and sweat proof. Umbrellas and beach canopies will provide a cool retreat from the heat. (FYI: Coppertone just released its new Continuous Spray Ultra Guard and Sport Spray SPF 70+ spray - A clear, no-rub spray that quickly covers the body at any angle for fast anti-sunburn protection. This spray allows for quick reapplication in less than 1 minute without rubbing in and getting hands greasy. Perfect to spritz on kids who don't like to stand still!) **Follow the shadow rule**. If your shadow is shorter than you are, the sun's rays are at their strongest. Cover up with sun protective clothing, such as a hat and sunglasses and head for shade during mid-day heat whenever possible! **Don't forget the toys**. Especially perfect for the beach, of course, are the sand toys. Plastic pails and shovels are ideal for collecting seashells or building a sand castle. Other ideal games to play on the beach are Frisbee and volleyball. Even playing non-traditional beach games such as football, soccer, catch and horseshoes can be fun. Remember to pack the pool toys that can be used in the ocean (noodles, floaties, etc.) or ask to see if the resort has them. **Make sure there is food nearby, whether it's a snack bar or snacks you bring yourself.** A hungry child is a cranky child. Be prepared with plenty of healthy snacks (and a few not-so-healthy snacks -- you're on vacation, why not indulge a bit?) Fruit such as apples, oranges and melons can be refreshing. Packing a lunch will save you the time, trouble and money. A small cooler to keep things at the right temperature is also ideal. **Be vigilant**. Always be vigilant of the kids around water. It only takes a second for a child disappears under water. It is also important to be aware of your surroundings and the people around you. Remind children not to talk to strangers, including vendors who may approach them on the beach. **Relax**. You're on vacation to get away from the usual routine and to rest and relax. Good planning before the trip will eliminate stress later. *Jeanne Muchnick is a multi-tasking mama who's been writing about her two girls ever since they were born. She's the former Editor of Baby Magazine turned InTown Senior Editor whose parenting stories have also appeared in a variety of national consumer magazines including Woman's Day, Healthy Kids, Parents, Parenting, Pregnancy, FamilyFun and more. She lives in Larchmont, NY with her two girls: Corey, 14 and Sydney, 11, her husband, Mark and her flat coated retriever, Chip.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/sun_fun_what_you_need_to_know_when_booking_a_beach_vacation_with_kids.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/sun_fun_what_you_need_to_know_when_booking_a_beach_vacation_with_kids.php Plan Ahead family-friendly planning vacation Thu, 14 Aug 2008 15:00:58 -0500 **By Jeanne Muchnick** It was on a recent flight from New York to Jacksonville, FL that I had an epiphany of sorts. I was watching a mother struggle with her "lap child," a girl that looked to be about one and a half, without a paid-for seat, who was obviously a handful: she didn't want to sit on her mom's lap, refused to suck on a cup during take-off and was endlessly kicking the seat in front of her. (I was thankfully behind her.) I looked over at my two girls, Corey, then eight, and Sydney, then five, busy entertaining themselves with coloring books and Gameboy, not a peep out of them, and turned to my husband with a knowing, gleeful smile. Once you've passed the years of diaper changes, spit-up, bulging carry-on bags and kicking seats, flying with your children takes on a whole new perspective. In fact, these are probably the best travel years of your life. You're over the nitty-gritty problems/crankiness factor of traveling with preschoolers, and have entered the "twilight" years of flying with kids who can pack their own bags, articulate what they want to eat, understand flight delays, and pretty much entertain themselves. That doesn't mean they'll always be angels. Nor does it mean you can forgo predicting, packing and planning altogether. But it does mean your next flight will be easier. Here, six strategies to keep in mind. 1. Scheduling: Travel midweek in the early morning on non-peak days (Monday to Wednesday), to avoid crowds (and possibly nab an extra seat). In case of weather or air traffic control delays, these are the flights that will most likely be re-routed or rescheduled. The end-of-the-day flights are often cancelled. Nonstop flights are best so you don't have to change planes and drag your carry-ons around the airport. If possible, avoid connections. On international trips, try booking so you arrive at your destination in the late afternoon or evening, to adjust to local time easier. (You don't want to arrive at your destination at 7 a.m. feeling you have to struggle to stay awake in order to beat jet lag.) 2. Seats: The days of requesting bulkhead (the row just behind first-class) for your youngster are over. Despite the fact that these seats have the most leg room (perfect for crawling babies), you need a place where you can store your carry-on bags in front of you, so your kids have easy access to their stuff. Go with seats as close to the front of plane as possible so you'll be among the first served meals and drinks, as well as the first people off the plane. Aisle or window seats are a personal preference. My kids still fight for the window, though I prefer booking the aisle as inevitably someone has to go to the bathroom. Often, we split up: my husband and Sydney in one row; Corey and I directly behind them (or across), and then switch kids on the return flight. This avoids the inevitable sibling squabbles and allows the children to get what they want. Ask about seat configurations when you book -- some are three across, or two, or more -- and may not accommodate the exact number in your party. Be explicit about the fact that you're travelling as a family. You also need to be sure that your seat assignments aren't inadvertently made in an exit row: children under 16 cannot sit here and you risk being asked to move once onboard. Book far in advance for the best seats. 3. What to Pack: Food, glorious food. Pack healthy: granola bars, raisins, peanut butter crackers, etc., but allow for special treats your kids don't often get at home: candy necklaces, lollipops, fruit roll-ups, as "ammunition" in case of delays. Electronic games (where would we moms be without a portable dvd player?), cards, paper, diary, coloring books, markers, crayons, stickers, books, IPod, bottled water, extra sweater (in case the plane is cold or to roll up for a pillow) should keep kids occupied and happy. Ask your children to pack their favorite things in a backpack; you can also bring a few inexpensive surprises. 4. In Case of the Fidgets: Your children need to know ahead of time what is acceptable behavior and what isn't. Talk to them before you leave for your trip; explain how they might get bored sitting for so long, but that you'll pack extra books or activities to keep them occupied. Let them know there will be consequences on the ground if they don't listen. A possible script: "I know how hard it is to sit here but you've been so patient up until now and it's only X more minutes until we land, or until the movie, or meal. Do you think you can handle it?" If they are bothering another passenger, personalize your approach so they better understand what they are doing. Introduce them to the lady whose seat they are kicking. Re-direct their energies, either with a snack, a word game, or by letting them stretch across you. 5. Hitting Turbulence: Bumpy flights are inevitable, as are the questions your kids will pepper you with. Stay calm. If you say things one way, but act another, they will sense your fear. Your best strategy: discuss the mechanics of flying and how planes often hit rough air, just as cars hit bumps in the road. An option: "Sometimes planes go up and down with the wind and clouds and that's part of the ride. The pilots know how to adjust the plane; it's all a normal part of flying and there's nothing to be afraid of." If your child presses you, tell the truth: yes, sometimes planes crash but that's a rare occurrence and is not going to happen. See how calm everyone is? If possible, call a flight attendant over to further explain. 6. Short vs. Long Flight Strategies: Again, it's all in the preparation. Explain ahead of time how long the flight will be; get your children involved by looking at maps, showing them your travel path. When booking your flight, consider length vs. layover. Going to London from Washington, DC, for example, means you can fly and arrive on the same day, but that means flying DC-NY-London and entails checking in and hanging out at two airports. Depending on the age of your children and their stamina, that may or may not be a good option. The same strategy works for short flights. Some kids can sleep anywhere: others can't. Some parents find their children tend to sleep better when it's dark outside. Others try to stick to regular routines as much as possible. On flights that don't look crowded, stake out a row of seats and have one parent sit there. If someone claims that seat, fine. If not, you have another option for separating siblings, or a place to lie down and rest. You know your children best: think about their temperament when making your plans. *Jeanne Muchnick is a multi-tasking mama who's been writing about her two girls ever since they were born. She's the former Editor of Baby Magazine turned InTown Senior Editor whose parenting stories have also appeared in a variety of national consumer magazines including Woman's Day, Healthy Kids, Parents, Parenting, Pregnancy, FamilyFun and more. She lives in Larchmont, NY with her two girls: Corey, 14 and Sydney, 11, her husband, Mark and her flat coated retriever, Chip.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/flying_with_kids_tips_to_make_your_trip_easier.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/flying_with_kids_tips_to_make_your_trip_easier.php Plan Ahead family flying plan ahead Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:56:43 -0500 **By Susan Finch** All-inclusive Beaches means plenty of dining options for all ages without calculating bills and scrounging up change at the end of the evening. Never worry about extra room charges if your kids hit the snack bar and swim-up soda bars while you're browsing the shops. And if your child (or spouse) is a picky eater, let them try a little of everything without worrying about the price. **Beaches Boscobel** *Eleanor's* - adult atmosphere for a romantic evening over Caribbean cuisine. *The Venetian* - Italian dishes in an inspired setting with high ceilings and fresco walls. *Bayside* - International buffet for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. *Arizona's* - Tex Mex meals and snacks with salads, pastas, chicken fingers, sandwiches, and more. *BBQ Park* - all your favorite bbq snacks and meals right outdoors. **Beaches Negril** *The Mill* - Open-air restaurant with buffet style International cuisine. *The Seville* - Georgian-style, adult-only restaurant with authentic Jamasian cuisine. *Kimono* - Chefs entertain while preparing Teppanyaki-style Japanese cuisine right at your table. *Last Chance Saloon* - A casual open-air restaurant for grilled Southwestern fare, salads, soups, and sandwiches. *Café Carnival* - Boasts brick-oven pizzas, pasta bar, and cooked to order Italian favorites. *Beach Grill* - Traditional burgers, jerk chicken, hot dogs and snacks until late night hours. **Beaches Sandy Bay** *The Bayside* - Poolside buffet dining with local Jamaican and international favorites. *The Sundowner* - New World Caribbean cuisine served á la carte. *La Vista Sul Mare* - Fine Italian cuisine in a relaxed setting. *Beaches Grill* - Grilled favorites including burgers and chicken for late-night beachside dining. **Beaches Turks and Caicos** *Reflections* - Open-air restaurant with Mediterranean, American, Caribbean, Americas, Oriental and seafood buffets. *Arizona's* - Causal Southwestern cuisine with ocean views for grilled fish, burgers, salads, and more. *Kimono's* - Chefs dazzle while preparing Oriental cuisine right at your table. Also features an adjoining sushi bar. *Schooners* - Ala carte breakfast boasting pastries, cereals and omelets with fresh seafood in the evenings on a beachside patio. *Sapodilla's* - White-glove service in an adult-only restaurant for International flavors. *Giuseppe's* - International buffet for breakfast and lunch with a special Italian menu for dinner. *Bobby D's* - 50s style inside a Pirate's Ship serving burgers, fries, hot-dogs, patties, pizza and desserts and self-serve ice-cream machine. *Le Petit Chateau* - French fare in a casual bistro setting for adults only. *Café de Paris* - Order up French pastries, strudels and snack with rich, specialty coffees. *Bella Napoli Pizzeria* - Customize your favorite pizzas from an Italian brick-oven. *Susan Finch is a freelance writer who has also worked extensively as a film and video editor on advertising, film, and corporate campaigns. As the daughter of a commercial airline pilot, she spent her childhood traveling and enjoying all the free perks while living in Atlanta. Her husband, a graphic designer, also has the travel bug and they use every excuse to hit the open road.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_restaurants.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_restaurants.php The Vacation dining resort restaurants Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:44:32 -0500 **By Susan Finch** Don't be afraid to venture off the resort to see what the rest of the island has to offer. In Jamaica, try a tour with Chukka Caribbean featuring 4x4 Safari and ATV tours through the island's tropical forests. If you're feeling adventurous, join a Canopy Tour and spend the afternoon zip lining through the trees for a birds-eye view of Jamaica. Chukka also offers a unique horseback riding experience where the horses trot right into the ocean for a swim while guests remain secure on their backs. You can also climb the 90-foot falls in Coyaba Gardens or explore the 600-foot falls of Dunn's River Falls. If you're just looking to relax and see more of the island, try a shopping tour through downtown Negril, Ochos Rios, Montego Bay, or Half Moon Shopping Village during the day or evening hours. There's duty-free options, village crafts, and local vendors to choose from. To get a taste of local flavor, try Rick's Café, a popular choice in Jamaica for authentic Caribbean food complete with stunning sunset views. Or ask the Beaches staff to arrange a day tour, kayaking, rafting, and art tours are also available. In Turks and Caicos, explore the largest but least populated part of the island with a mountain bike tour through the northern tip of the island. See how the locals live and try your hand at bonefishing along the banks, or venture out to the flats of the island. But to see the waters up-close and personal, try an eco kayak tour to explore the marine ecology around Little Water Cay or grab your binoculars and do some bird watching. Get to know the city of Provenciales with a shopping tour at the town center shops at Central Square. There's also a local Craft Market to see what the natives are offering up. For authentic eats, try Anacaona along Grace Bay Beach for Mediterranean fare. Grace's Cottage is also a romantic choice for parents looking for an evening alone over local seafood and drinks. Turks and Caicos houses the only conch farm in the world, and the local delicacy is worth the trip. Head to the farm's offshore and onshore pens to catch a glimpse of Conch pearls or purchase fresh fish for an added treat in a salad. Daily tours offer a quick and informative biology lesson before exploring the life and harvest of a conch. *Susan Finch is a freelance writer who has also worked extensively as a film and video editor on advertising, film, and corporate campaigns. As the daughter of a commercial airline pilot, she spent her childhood traveling and enjoying all the free perks while living in Atlanta. Her husband, a graphic designer, also has the travel bug and they use every excuse to hit the open road.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_off_island_adventures.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_off_island_adventures.php The Vacation activities beach resort vacation Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:42:06 -0500 **By Susan Finch** Beaches offers its guests the opportunity for adventure, without leaving the convenience of the resort. It's an ideal atmosphere for families who get a little stir crazy after a few hours of relaxation, and also for guests who don't want to venture too far. Activities on the Jamaica and Turks and Caicos properties vary slightly, but generally offer the same or similar activities for solo excursions and family fun. All activities listed are also included in your stay, so you're free to try new activities without worrying about restricting your budget to just one adventure. Jamaica and Turks and Caicos boasts some of the most esteemed snorkeling and scuba diving in the world, so don't miss out on the chance to join an elite club of divers. For an additional fee, scuba divers can get certified directly at Beaches. A certified instructor offers in-depth training for the most inexperienced novices and seasoned divers alike. You can get certified and start diving the very next day and start exploring underwater caves, ominous shipwrecks, marine life, and more. Special boat trips also introduce guests to the most pristine and tranquil spots to flex their diving skills. To work off some of those all-inclusive meals, hit the water with canoeing, kayaking, and hydro biking and start sailing across turquoise waters. Windsurfing, sail boats, and hobie cats are also on hand to enjoy your stretch of sand and surf while showing off on the water. Beaches Sandy Bay also offers water-skiing to guests, a rare adventure for even the most experienced sports enthusiast. If you want to spend your time enjoying less adventurous activities, there's still plenty to do. Start with a glass-bottom boat ride to relax right on the water without ever venturing past your air-conditioned view from the inside. On resort, get the while family involved in a friendly game of beach volleyball, table tennis, shuffleboard, billiards, croquet, and board games. Daytime and evening tennis are also available for practice or a spontaneous competition with guests. And for kids who want their own thrill-seeking fun, turn them loose at Pirate's Island water park. Don't forget to check out the resorts' fitness centers complete with state of the art equipment, nautilus machines, treadmills, and more. For an additional fee, you can also head to the spa for a special stone treatment, facials, pedicures, sports massages, and special services for both men and women. *Susan Finch is a freelance writer who has also worked extensively as a film and video editor on advertising, film, and corporate campaigns. As the daughter of a commercial airline pilot, she spent her childhood traveling and enjoying all the free perks while living in Atlanta. Her husband, a graphic designer, also has the travel bug and they use every excuse to hit the open road.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_resort_activities.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_resort_activities.php The Vacation activities beach family resort vacation Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:39:59 -0500 **By Susan Finch** It's not only normal, but healthy for parents to have apprehensions about dropping off their children on vacation with a staff they don't know. But don't let a dream vacation turn into a battle of nerves over whether or not your child with thrive in a kids' club environment. Instead of worrying about what your little ones are up to when you should be relaxing on the beach, know all the facts before you go. Rest easy knowing that Beaches employs Certified Nannies who have been carefully trained and certified as child development specialists with recognition from Florida State University and the International Nanny Association. To develop a safe and enjoyable experience for children, Beaches partnered with acclaimed Parents in a Pinch, Inc. who have been consulting in the childcare industry and offering nanny services for over a decade. Together they designed a comprehensive education program for both daytime and evening activities. That means your nannies aren't only trained, but fully engaged with your children. Beaches' carefully trains it nannies to cover a wide-range of health and safety issues specific to each age group including choking emergencies, social-emotional growth and development. They also strive to achieve child-friendly environments and appropriate group settings for children. If you have a child with special needs, the nannies are also equipped to engage even the shyest children, calm aggressive children, and assist those suffering from separation anxiety. Beaches nannies are experienced with icebreaker activities, modeling and supervision, interacting with parents, dealing with difficult situations, conflict resolution, scheduling activities, and group activity suggestions. And if your child unexpectedly feels ill or an emergency arises, each Beaches property also keeps a nurse on hand. Now that you know all the requirements to become a Beaches nanny, remember to be a proactive parent. Let the staff know if your child has special needs, allergies, fears, or sensitivities. Also keep in mind that some kids need plenty of time to get use to an idea, especially if they're shy. Start talking up the vacation in advance so your child knows what to expect. It's also a good idea to plan a few activities with friends or neighbors so they grow accustomed to the idea of playing in a group. And always make sure to inquire about special activities in advance. Don't promise arts and crafts, scuba diving or snorkeling before finding out availability, age and any other requirements. *Susan Finch is a freelance writer who has also worked extensively as a film and video editor on advertising, film, and corporate campaigns. As the daughter of a commercial airline pilot, she spent her childhood traveling and enjoying all the free perks while living in Atlanta. Her husband, a graphic designer, also has the travel bug and they use every excuse to hit the open road.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_certified_child_care.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/the_insiders_guide_to_beaches_resorts_certified_child_care.php The Vacation babysitters beach child care family vacation Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:33:46 -0500 **Meryl D. Pearlstein** Thinking about vacationing at an all-inclusive resort? We surveyed one of our favorite experts in the category, Adrian Whitehead, Hotel Manager of Beaches Turks and Caicos Resorts and Spa, for his tips to a perfect holiday: 1. An all-inclusive vacation can be the most memorable vacation you'll ever have. Activities vary from day to day and there's pretty much something for everyone in every age group to choose from, or you can choose to do nothing at all. With so many choices and a staff adept at catering to all manner of needs, you can usually have it "your way" if you plan ahead. 2. Do plan ahead, but just a little. Since the beauty of an all-inclusive is the idea of having everything pre-packaged for you at no extra charge, you'll have more than enough options to select from. However, this doesn't mean that you shouldn't ask for what you want. If you absolutely hate peanut butter or are allergic to even the thought of a peanut, make that very clear either before you arrive or once at the resort. If you would like to have group dining every night, that's completely possible. And if your group is quite large, it's actually very important to arrange that as soon as you can so you'll have the dining facility or variety of dining facilities that you want for your entire group throughout your stay. Similarly, having some private time for the two of you, while you leave your kiddies in the care of a babysitter or a group program, is important, too. So be sure to schedule that as well to give yourself some "away time" from your group or your family. 3. If your group has diverse interests, enlist the assistance of the resort activities planner or concierge to pull together a program for everyone. You may have a split group one day: one group goes off snorkeling and for those who prefer land-based activities, the others go on a biking tour or shopping. If cost is a consideration, don't even bother with extra excursions that might be available. There will be more than enough things for you to do at the resort that don't add a surcharge to your trip. 4. All-inclusives are not just for large groups or families with babies. They're perfect for everyone. Families gathering for reunions love them because of the programs tailored for all ages. Couples love them because there are plenty of romantic corners and places to do absolutely nothing at all. The larger the group, the more advisable it is to call ahead to secure housing in adjacent areas. The same is suggested for nightly dining, if everyone is looking forward to spending time together at dinner, given the likelihood of differing activities during the day. And, if there are special dietary needs to be addressed, it is especially important to let the resort know so they can prepare appropriate meals throughout your stay. 5. Increasingly critical today with airline cutbacks is travel insurance. If your plans change, perhaps not due to any fault of your own, it's nice to know that you can recoup most of your investment. The cost is a small percentage of the total price of your trip, and it's definitely worth the peace of mind and financial security blanket. 6. While there is a boutique at the resort for most of your needs, pack extras of your kids' favorite pacifiers, stuffed animals, and other irreplaceable items that might get lost over the course of a week or might not arrive if your luggage is lost or delayed. Be sure to pack favorites in your carry-on. 7. Most importantly, have a wonderful vacation! Leave your work worries behind, enjoy the fabulous experience that awaits, and let the resort staff take care of you. That's what we're here for! Happy travels and cheers! *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/advice_from_an_allinclusive_resort_expert.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/advice_from_an_allinclusive_resort_expert.php Plan Ahead all-inclusive planning ahead Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:07:47 -0500 **By Meryl D. Pearlstein** Torn between the dilemma of leaving your kids behind or taking them with you when you travel on business? All can stay together and gain from the experience. Kids are like sponges that soak up every new experience, at least before they become teenagers. And schools have increasingly begun to recognize the value of a day spent traveling with mom and dad versus a day in the classroom. So, if homework is not too much of an issue, and the kids are interested, consider amending your work itinerary to include them. Make your business trip a business trip for them, too. **Involve Your Kids in the Planning** Let your kids tell you whether they'd prefer to travel by plane, car or train. For example, a trip to Canada could be arranged on the Via Railroad, with a route from Montreal to Toronto or from Toronto westbound, jam-packed with views of the Canadian plains and Rockies on a train with a glass-ceilinged observation car instead of on a plane with no views. Or, add in pit stops on your drive to make the trip a real face-to-face education, filled with learning opportunities and adventure. **Add Structure through "Assignments"** Give your children a journal to write in each day. Add your overall comments to their observations. You and your kids will all have some work to do. Since it IS a business trip, give them a specific assignment beyond just the general observations. If you're in the Caribbean, ask them to comment on how the surroundings and weather might have influenced what they had for dinner, or how people are dressed. If they can meet with local children, have them conduct a brief interview to see what cultural differences they observe. Have your children "debrief" with you on the return trip home as a rehearsal for a presentation of their experiences to teachers or friends. **Plan Ahead** Pre-arrange babysitters who are knowledgeable about the area's attractions and culture. Especially search out those who could add new experiences. Build schedules for both you and your children and write them out in a somewhat formal fashion. Include your children whenever possible in scheduled meals and receptions. Conversely, arrange private meetings - meals, snacks, and activities - as your time allows to spend valuable time alone. If there are children-specific programs at your hotel or exercise facilities that permit teenagers, research activities offered before you arrive and sign your kids up for programs that match their interests. Together, you and your children can enjoy much of your working hours away from home, gaining memories of new places and cultures and spending time together, helping ease the separation anxiety that comes with being a road warrior. *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/bring_the_kids_with_you_on_a_business_trip_youll_miss_them_less_and_theyll_have_a_great_time_too.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/bring_the_kids_with_you_on_a_business_trip_youll_miss_them_less_and_theyll_have_a_great_time_too.php The Vacation business family-friendly travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 14:02:16 -0500 By Meryl D. Pearlstein • Avoid travel during peak holiday periods if at all possible • Pack a carry-on bag with (or bring in the car) plenty of diversions, snacks and drinks. Great boredom-busters, in addition to the standard coloring items and books to read, include stickers or Colorforms; MagnaDoodle or Etch-a-Sketch sets; travel versions of games; personal tape player with headphones and audiocassettes; and mini tubs of PlayDoh. • Don't book the bulkhead seats unless you need the floor space for a bassinet on an overnight flight. You won't have anywhere to stow your carry-on gear except in the overhead bin. • Time you travel to coincide with nap schedule • Never assume that the airline, hotel, or resort (or even relatives) will have child-friendly food or special equipment. It's far better to over pack than be caught without something essential. • Baby-proof your hotel room or host's home as soon as you arrive. Pay particular attention to window locks, glassware, ashtrays, electrical outlets, lamp cords, toiletries, and medicine. • Try to establish familiar routines while away from home. Your child will handle the change of environment better if naps, meals, and bedtime occur as usual. • Make an effort to connect with other families at your destination and to incorporate child-oriented activities and sites into your itinerary. • Introduce new sleeping arrangements ahead of time. For example, put your toddler to sleep in the port-a-crib at home for a few nights before you leave; if siblings will be sharing a room for the first time, practice the new bedtime routine to get them used to it. • Delay major transitions, such as weaning, potty-training, or going from crib to bed until after your trip. • Don't expect perfection from you family vacation. Keep it simple, try to be patient, and remember Murphy's Law of travel with children: whatever can happen, will. Just wait until they're teenagers and don't want to go on the trip in the first place! *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/practical_tips_for_better_family_trips.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/practical_tips_for_better_family_trips.php Plan Ahead family-friendly travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 13:58:24 -0500 **By Meryl D. Pearlstein** Who can forget the advertising tag line "Don't leave home without it"? If you start your vacation planning with this in mind, you'll have a better chance of avoiding many common vacation spoilers. Here are some tips to prepare you for the vagaries of vacation roulette: Assume that something will delay your trip, whether it's by plane, train or automobile. Weather delays, mechanical failures and traffic foul-ups all can blow out even the most finely tuned schedule. Always pack a carry-on or a piece of accessible luggage with enough clothing, snacks, supplies, medications, toys and other necessities to steel you through a six-hour delay (minimum). Also, try to leave a little flex time at both ends of your trip. "Acts of God" do happen. No one could have foretold all the varied, counterintuitive weather effects from El Nino or the rash of tornadoes and fires of late. Items such as candles, matches, flashlights, folding umbrellas, ponchos, bug repellent, sunblock and a Swiss Army knife should always travel with you. You may not be able to buy them when you arrive. Prepare a packing list in advance. How many times has your camera stopped working just when you find the perfect sunset, or when your child shakes hands with Mickey Mouse for the first time? Always bring along an extra battery, film and the directions for using your recording equipment. If you're nervous about experiencing a machinery meltdown, pack a couple of disposable cameras with you. The print quality is actually quite good, and you don't need any special ability to use them. Pre-book as much as you can. Unless you're one of those travelers who lives and dies by spontaneity, you can save yourself a lot of disappointment by doing some homework. If there's a restaurant you're dying to try, call for reservations before you even pack your bags. No one will fault you if you cancel later. And this one comes from the school of experience: If possible, reserve any midtrip accommodations in advance, or you may find yourself driving in search of a bed and a meal for many more miles than you had planned. Or you may end up staying in an RV park next to a swamp instead of in that cute bed and breakfast you had hoped for. *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/avoid_travel_nightmares_with_advance_planning.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/avoid_travel_nightmares_with_advance_planning.php Plan Ahead mishaps Plan Ahead travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 13:51:40 -0500 **By Meryl D. Pearlstein** 1. Since 9/11 children traveling with their parents or with other adults must possess a passport or birth certificate just like any adult 2. Review the CDC Web site (www.cdc.gov) to learn about any vaccinations or medications necessary for the part of the world you'll be visiting. Note, in particular, any differences in dosage or medication by age group. If you're traveling to an area where malaria, Typhoid, or bugs are common, search out pediatric and adult specialists in inoculations enough in advance of your trip to allow for the recommended dosage and timing to take effect. 3. Determine whether it is safe to drink the water in the area you will be visiting. Although purification may eliminate any worries at your resort or hotel, outside areas and ice cubes may pose a risk. Also, silverware washed in dirty water can be equally harmful. 4. Try to pack as light as possible. With escalating fuel costs, airlines are increasingly charging for suitcases that are overweight or for a second suitcase. Lay out all your clothes and then leave half behind. Pack powdered detergent to rinse out quick-dry fabric items instead. If you plan to purchase a lot of gifts, pack clothing that you can discard on the way and replace with new trinkets without altering the weight of your bags. 5. Use soft duffels when you can - invest in a series of colored stuff bags that you can color code and label to organize items easily. A great system might be one bag for underwear, one for pants, one for socks, one for medicines, and one for electronics. Bring along extra stuff sacks or a garbage bag to keep dirty laundry separate from clean clothes. 6. Pack duplicates of items that you may not be able to purchase abroad. These would include contact lenses, eyeglasses, special eye drops, medicines, and food items for your kids (peanut butter, crackers). Also bring extras of children's favorites that may not be readily accessible if lost such as pacifiers, stuffed toys, books (foreign language books may not do the trick!) 7. Remember that a camera malfunction could mean a vacation disaster. Always bring lots and lots of batteries as well as a disposable camera or two.... Just in case. 8. Involve your kids - if they're old enough - in the planning of the trip. Give them maps they can mark up with notes as well as a notebook for recording their thoughts and drawing pictures of what they see. *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/traveling_abroad_heres_what_you_need_to_know.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/traveling_abroad_heres_what_you_need_to_know.php Plan Ahead checklists international travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 13:47:19 -0500 **By Meryl D. Pearlstein** While all-inclusive resorts offer a one-stop alternative to vacation planning, the range of activities, dining choices and accommodations can be overwhelming. Here are a few tips to make the process an easy and memorable one for each member of the family: • Research the property before you arrive. Think of it like approaching going to Disney World. There's always going to more to do than you can fit in during any given day. So have a plan. And prioritize. Ask yourself which activities can you not live without, which ones would be nice if you had time to do them. Apply this strategy to your thoughts for accommodations and dining as well. • For example, for dining, figure out which restaurants require advance reservations, which are appropriate for dining earlier with smaller kids, which are good for teenagers and grownups, etc. Then plan your schedule. Of course, spontaneity is always nice on vacation, but you may miss out on the one type of cuisine that you really had your heart set on. • For accommodations, again know your options. Do you want to be near the swimming pool or as far away from it as possible? Is it going to be difficult for you to go long distances with a stroller? Do you want to be near the Children's program (or, again, far away from the scampering of little feet?) And what size accommodations will be suitable for your group? Are you comfortable with side-by-side rooms for older children or is a larger suite or adjoining rooms more your taste? • Does your all-inclusive truly include everything? What are the expected extras? Are tips included for everything, or should you allot a budget for tips for excursions and other special programs? If you're not sure, contact the resort before you arrive so you're prepared with small bills as most people prefer tips in cash. If you decide to go off-property, what might be the costs you'll encounter? Plan for everything: taxis, meals, drinks, tour guides, car rentals, other transportation rentals, sports equipment, fishing equipment and so on. You'll feel more comfortable if you have a budget set. • Make sure that the all-inclusive you select is appropriate for all members of your group. Some are really just for families with toddlers and babies. Others are not equipped to handle younger children which means that you'll end up doing that. If the resort has a nanny program that will give you free time, does the resort have enough programming to entertain you at an adult level? And, if you have older kids with you that might have "aged out" of group, will there be enough to keep them busy? • In a way, selecting an all-inclusive resort is like picking a college.... For everyone. You'll want to be nourished, catered to, entertained, stimulated, refreshed, and come home with something that you'll always remember: memories of one of the best times of your life. *Traveling with her two sons and husband has given Meryl Pearlstein a chance to "live" all over the world, something she's always longed to do. Meryl has been a writer from her earliest days on her junior high school newspaper,then working in marketing and advertising, and later as a travel publicist and travel writer. Meryl also drags her clan to restaurants throughout Manhattan where she critiques the ever-changing NYC food scene for Gayot.com. A Bostonian who remains true to the Red Sox despite her NYC residence, Meryl also writes for Fodor's Guide to New York, and has written for www.ClubMom.com, the Boston Herald, Global Traveler, Fortune Small Business online, GQ, and New York Magazine.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/travel_to_an_allinclusive_is_smart_for_the_entire_family.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/the_vacation/2008/08/travel_to_an_allinclusive_is_smart_for_the_entire_family.php The Vacation all-inclusive travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 13:36:25 -0500 **By Stacy DeBroff** Write out the name and phone number of the person you are visiting or the hotel you are staying at and place it in your child's coat pocket. --*Lauri-Jo Kotzen, mom of Mike, 17, and Rob, 14* Whenever I travel, I call ahead to find out which local hospital is affiliated with a university medical school in town. I ask for a reference to a good private pediatrician in town to whom I can take my child. I also never leave home without Motrin, Tylenol, syrup of ipecac in case of accidental poisoning, and an Epi-pin for bee stings. --*Bryan Bromley, mom of Ben, 8, Emma, 5, and Spencer, 1* One time when we had forgotten plug covers, I used band-aids as an imperfect but effective substitute over the exposed electrical outlets. --*Amy, mom of Sacha, 8, and Libby, 6* If you are going to be in very crowded places: • Agree where you will meet if you are separated and teach your child what to do if he becomes lost: approach someone in uniform or an older woman for help; stay in one spot, as long as it's not secluded; and do not get into anybody's car. • Attach a helium balloon to your child's wrist to help you keep track of him in a crowd. • Dress your family in the same brightly colored shirts or hats. • Put emergency contact information in a zippered pocket of your child's coat or backpack in case you are separated. Include your child's name, your name, address, home number, cell phone number, primary care doctor, health insurance, and nearest relative to call if you can't be reached. Add contact information about where you can be reached while on vacation. You can write this on contact paper, and stick it inside the pocket or you can laminate it. • Pack a recent picture of your child in case you become separated from him. • Look up the number of the local poison control center, and if staying with family, put it in the phone book for future visits. • Before leaving, check into your medical insurance provider's policy on emergencies and travel coverage. Know your options to increase your chances of being reimbursed. • Attach a helium balloon to your child's wrist to help you keep track of him in a crowd. • Dress your family in the same brightly colored shirt or hat. • Pack a recent picture of your child in case you become separated from him. • Get a cell phone or upgrade your long-distance service for your existing mobile phone to have better access on long car rides or when camping or hiking. • Give your child a whistle to blow if you are separated. If you cannot impress upon your child not to blow it for fun, keep the whistle yourself and teach your child to listen for it if he is lost. • If your child has allergies or medical needs, make sure he carries that information with him at all times, along with contact information for his physician. • Ensure your child's safety by reminding relatives to keep medications and cleaning products out of reach during family visits. You can even bring child-resistant locks with you to childproof bathrooms and kitchens. Many hotels that cater to families will help you childproof your room. If not, here are some things you can bring with you, or ask about: • Door knob cover for bathroom door • Toilet lock • Outlet covers, or tape to cover outlets in foreign countries • Windows that lock • No glass coffee tables, breakables, or hanging drapes • Tie a ribbon around your hotel's doorknob so your child will recognize it on his own as he races down the hallway looking for your room. *Stacy, heralded as a "parenting guru" by the Wall Street Journal, authored four best-selling parenting books (Simon & Schuster) and launched Mom Central, Inc. (www.MomCentral.com), a company devoted to providing savvy advice to simplify and enrich the lives of busy Moms and their families. Stacy appears as a regular parenting expert on national TV show, including NBC's Today Show, CNN, The View, Tyra Banks Show, CBS' Early Show, The Daily Buzz, Mike And Juliet, Fox & Friends, and the Rachael Ray Show. Stacy also serves as a corporate spokesperson, trendspotting for the media on behalf of over 30 national brands.* *In the 1990's, Stacy founded and ran as an attorney the Public Interest Office at Harvard Law School. Stacy lives with her husband, Ron, and happily engages in imperfect parenting of their two teens, Kyle and Brooks, in Boston, Massachusetts.* http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/general_safety_while_traveling.php http://www.familyvacationsurvivalguide.com/articles/plan_ahead/2008/08/general_safety_while_traveling.php Plan Ahead safety travel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 12:45:47 -0500